Dont Touch Me !

The painful truth is that it is not only girls who are victims of sexual abuse. A large number of boys too are subjected to such abuse.

In nearly 80% of cases, sexual abuse is not committed by strangers. It is most often perpetrated by close relatives, people within the parents’ circle of friends, neighbours, or other familiar and trusted individuals. We need to understand the immense shock and pain that such an experience can cause a child.

People who prey upon children for their own sexual gratification often begin by gaining the trust of the parents. They may behave affectionately and lovingly towards the child, appearing completely normal and caring. Gradually, they observe the family environment and understand what the child may be denied at home. They then offer those things with affection and care, making themselves appear to be someone who understands and loves the child. Slowly, they gain the child’s trust and draw the child closer to them. Only later do they begin to reveal their true intentions and abusive behaviour.